- Cathedral Rock trail; Sedona, AZ
I had a great conversation with my son Zach the other night. While I’m still adjusting to the fact that I have to do that over the phone now, he remains one of my favorite people with whom to talk and philosophize. The University of Cincinnati is lucky to have him.
He and I spent a week in Arizona last spring as part of his college search. Scottsdale, Sedona, Flagstaff, Page and the Grand Canyon… I like to call that trip “the little college visit that grew”.
- Cathedral Rock; Sedona AZ
There was a lot of strenuous hiking in changeable weather. Kind of a perfect life transition trip, actually. The opportunities for connection may change as our children morph into teens and then young adults, but they remain to be found and relished on all available terms.
Towards the end of our conversation, we remembered some of our hikes and discussed when I might be able to visit him on campus. I joked that we should start thinking about grad school visits, hoping that Arizona won’t prove to be our last adventure together. He laughed with me and mentioned a couple of countries that are on my travel list. I didn’t say “no”.
I think he knows that, while the destination and purpose provide context, whether on a trail or through academia, the journey itself truly is the joy.
Thinking comes more easily if you have something to say.
Our daughter has been traveling since she started college, all on her own nickel. She goes to Asia, I go to the grocery store!
I’m glad she’s doing it while she’s young and doesn’t have kids yet, and I wish I could share it with her.
But hubby and I get to hear all about it, at least, and watch the CDs of photos that she gives us when she returns.
Smart mom: you planted the seeds of future trips with your son!
I love Arizona and have been there many times, although there is so much of it I have yet to see.
Sounds like you raised your daughter well, Lynda! No doubt she is learning as much on her trips as she is on campus. The right time to “go” is whenever you can!
I have renewed interest in your northeastern shoreline after viewing some of your photos. It has been far too many years since I’ve been up that way.
What a magical location. I love the red rocks and vast landscapes f this part of America.
Very efficiently written story. It will be valuable to anybody who utilizes it, as well as me. Keep up the good work – can’r wait to read more posts.